Are you that way because of the loss and do you have no control over that? Or are you choosing to dwell on it? Are you choosing to stay back inside of that loss? Are you making your own life the way that it is??
— Jordan Dreyer explaining Harder Harmonies (Conversations 2012)
Do not try to be pretty. You weren’t meant to be pretty; you were meant to burn down the earth and graffiti the sky. Don’t let anyone ever simplify you to just “pretty.”